The Paradox of the Great Dad

What is a “great dad”?

The question came up during conversation with a young man in his late twenties who remarked that several equally young men of his acquaintance were “great dads.” In my young friend’s estimation, a great dad is one who religiously attends his kids’ organized sports events, spends all the time he can possibly spend fun doing things with his kids, and generally puts his kids first in his life. He’s a sensitive guy who lets his children know in every way he can that they are at the top of his priorities, his raison d’etre.

My silent reaction: Oh, me. Oh, my. What is this world coming to?