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John, you are so right about everything in this column! Since the “transgender” craze became a cause du jour in the media, I have met several people who either claim to be transgender or claim to have a transgender child (or children). In my little corner of the world, my observation is that these claims are totally about attention seeking, virtue signaling and really bad parenting. I have also observed - again, in my limited experience - that none of the “transgenders” nor their parents are political conservatives.

The first parent I ever encountered who made this claim about her child (and it always seems to be the mother who is “oh so proud” of her “brave” child for deciding s/he is the opposite sex) is a woman I have known for almost 30 years. The mother in question was kind of a spoiled brat, and was a person who was always demanding promotions, raises, etc., based on her own evaluation of her performance (I was her boss at work). She was never satisfied with what she had, always wanting more and she wanted it RIGHT NOW!

She eventually got married and had two children, a boy and a girl. Her husband was kind of lazy and an underachiever, while she went on to be pretty successful. Her son - the first born - was a smart child, good in school, a gifted athlete and a kid who had lots of friends. As such, he got a lot of positive attention from his parents, teachers, coaches and friends. The daughter kind of grew up in his shadow, never quite measuring up. When the daughter was 14 her older brother was accepted at a “prestige” university on an athletic scholarship and went away to college. At the same time the daughter was dumped by a boy she liked and suddenly announced that she was a boy and wished to be called Kyle, which was kind of a masculine version of her actual name. At first her parents just laughed it off, never having heard of someone proclaiming to be the opposite sex. But the daughter was quite insistent, and eventually the school got involved. A principal/parent conference was called and the parents were told in no uncertain terms that their daughter was now their son (because she proclaimed it to be so) and the parents were required to climb aboard the crazy train. The principal gave them the name of a clinical psychologist and demanded that they make an appointment for family therapy. This therapy was not directed at addressing the child’s demands that the family live in her fantasy world, but instead was directed toward the parents accepting this and not only allowing their daughter to live pretending to be a boy, but to forcing the parents to believe that this was completely reasonable and anyone (like grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc) who did not play along was cut out of their lives. Obviously by jumping aboard the transgender train the daughter got the attention and affirmation she so desperately craved, from her parents, teachers and shrink.

This crazy fantasy went on for three years until the daughter was a senior in high school and met a boy she was attracted to. Suddenly she was no longer a boy, started dressing and acting more like a girl and went back to her given name. Thank God nobody went to the extreme of “gender reassignment” drugs and surgery during her extended visit to crazy world.

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